The #MeToo Movement Is Feminist BS
The MeToo hashtag movement is full of it. A simplistic efficacious call to emotionally weak women to join yet another misandristic herd predicated on taking pride in being a “victim.”
It’s indicative of what a pathetic state our society has come to, as if strength of character lies in joining with other women in another anti-man cause. I wouldn’t be surprised if there are women who pick their own brains relentlessly to try and remember some little time a man exhibited an unwelcome overture, which was spurned, counting that as if it’s harassment so they can join the crowd. ( I’ve heard women doing this, several times over the years, giving me details, of what in their mind is such a terrible story, and upon hearing it, I’m left completely feeling the woman is seriously emotionally disturbed, and I empathize with the poor men in their stories.) Many women really want to be “victims.” Looks like such women are in their heyday now.
Are there women who have truly been sexually harassed or assaulted, of course there are. Are some of them also having fun with the hashtag or getting an emotional boost from it, probably. The movement, though purporting to be about the issue, is actually a sham relying upon many women who can only feel a sense of worth by taking pride in announcing themselves to be victims. It’s hard to think a real victim who has suffered real abuse would receive solace by jumping on a bandwagon to party with other women (nor do they take pride nor shame) in it. A strong female would realize there’s no reason for the societal tools of shame/guilt while at the same time realizing strength lies in learning whatever lessons therein are to be learned, not joining a silly herd of women many with a political and societal feminist man-hating agenda.
Being A Victim Isn’t Equated With Being An Achiever
Today’s feminists are notoriously bent on claiming to be victims in every way they can imagine. Real females get esteem from real accomplishments such as their work and their families. Whether they’ve ever suffered real abuse or not, it’s not from whence they attempt to gain self esteem.
Achievement, regardless of anything experienced in the past, rest on its own laurels. Not those of powerful people and their weaknesses/mistakes/evil you might have encountered and want to name drop.
Real victims might share such experiences with those close to them, I wouldn’t think they’d want to make a socially fun activity parading it. Seems to me, the time to speak out, if one felt victimized, would have been then. Likewise, using a hashtag as a sign of empowerment strikes me as incredibly hilarious.
A woman (aside from violent encounters) always has a choice whether to provide sexual favors to a man or not. I don’t take any of this intimidation and emotional instability seriously as an excuse. Men who actually try to coerce women into trading/linking sex for career advancement are disgusting low class males, however no woman has to say “yes.”If she does, she entered into an equal exchange, she’s not a victim.
And if a woman were actually physically forced, there’s nothing admirable to me about sharing it decades later. The time for action of a strong adult woman who cares about it would have been then. Silence, if actually one had such an encounter, is something for said individual to come to terms with, what rationalizations led them to keep quiet, what were their priorities, their fears and concerns? Indeed, I respect and admire women of any age who boldly, regardless of consequences, speak the truth at the time something happened. Somehow, words fall far short of making me feel any sympathy when I look at women with careers, money, and fame alleging victimization by a man/men from years ago. Something else apparently took priority at the time. And, that, is indeed a conscious choice they made.
Truly victimized? What’s a hashtag versus confronting your own inner demons, obtaining clarity as to why you never sought justice or sharing if it was needed at the time? Whatever reasons, they are for you to learn, the popular sharing of every form of alleged victimization is a movement meant only to cheapen your experience by using it for a collective political agenda. If you are an individual, you learn from your experiences, whatever form they took, you do not get better by wallowing in stories and behaving as if you are still being victimized, you win by proceeding in your life to achieve without regard to anyone who harmed you in any manner.
Does our society have men who try to take advantage of their work positions with women, sure. Why? Because for one, they know many women gladly exchange their bodies for favors, and two, anyone who rejects doing so likely will not make a public claim to that effect (and that’s not necessarily bad either, it is all a matter of you deciding what serves your best interest). I believe women are best served by becoming emotionally, physically, mentally and spiritually strong enough to reject anything they view as coercive, avoid the situations where it can be anticipated, and if physically assaulted (versus psychologically/emotionally as many of these fall under) report it as a criminal act. If only psychological/emotional belittling pressure/issue, then leave. Unless a man is seriously disturbed, usually all it takes a rebuff rather than tacit encouragement. If it goes beyond that and you feel it justifies being stopped use the legal avenues available or leave for another job, whatever suits you best.
Saving a story of alleged abuse for years (in some cases decades) just doesn’t cut it with me.
I Respect Prostitutes More Than Feminist Bitches
A prostitute is a businesswoman, providing a service for a fee. She isn’t measuring the man to see if developing a relationship with him serves her interests, and she isn’t manipulating a man to think he’s in love or that she loves him to get something. She’s not using you, she’s selling you something. When you part, it’s the end of the transaction. Not so with feminist bitches who can plague you for years to come. Never underestimate what a wicked woman will do. They know not the word “loyalty.”
Women who claim some sort of emotional abuse or manipulation (previously involved with famous /wealthy men) often say they felt intimidated or whatever other silly word they use to allege some emotional impropriety took place, meanwhile they dated and enjoyed all the benefits of the man’s wealth, being wined and dined, in exchange for being a girlfriend. Is dating a powerful man being victimized? Absolutely not! Dating and all it entails is voluntary. If based on a superficial premise it was just an exchange from which you got whatever you valued at the time by giving him what he valued. If based on something more such as feelings and relationship development in really appreciating who the man was, later to go your separate ways, it’s also not victimization. That’s what dating is for. Finding out to what degree you want to join with another for whatever reason. To act as if sharing your dating experiences in is of any value or noteworthy when it’s obviously intended to besmirch someone is a reflection of a serious lack of integrity.
Granted, lots of men in this society play the game, using their wealth (to whatever, even minimal, degree it might be) to buy a woman’s interest, in which case, it’s simply a matter of who outplays the other. Maybe it remains an equal exchange, or when each feels they have gotten all they can, they part. If you provided your body to get an advantage as you saw it at the time, face it, it’s who you were or are. However, you’re not a victim.If you fell “in” and “out” of love, you’re not a victim. Whatever happened, you willingly involved yourself, so keep your mouth shut.
Real females don’t kiss and tell.
Warning To Men
While feminists claim they are trying to bring attention to a widespread problem, I’d say it’s time to bring attention to the prevalence of man-hatred in this society masquerading as “women’s rights.” Misandry is not a familiar term like misogyny, though I speculate it is actually far more prevalent.
It’s time to warn vulnerable young men (or older men who have been out of the dating scene due to divorce) against the predatory women who will use their bodies well to entice a man into think this time he’s in love. It’s time to caution men to realize some good sex isn’t worth being involved with a disturbed woman. Women know how to manipulate men, and sex is a powerful way to get even an intelligent man out of his right mind. Test a woman, test to see is she cares about you, before her use of her body clouds your judgment. I’ve seen many a good man in this society get burned by bad women, women with ulterior motives, women looking to get their emotional or financial needs filled, both should be a warning sign to a man who seeks a truly loving relationship. Often good men are the most vulnerable to making mistakes with such women, as in their goodness, they have become naive, equating it with acceptance of things they feel deep inside are not right.
The serial sexual predation on men, especially upon those with some financial success or potential (defined as anything beyond whatever the woman makes) or with social respect the woman seeks to gain some reflected glory from, is hardly ever focused upon. It’s as if you can’t say anything negative about women; despite their wanting to be viewed as “equals” you better not equally cast aspersions on their motives.
I have much sympathy for men I’ve seem victimized by disgusting women in this society. Want to focus on some real victims, consider the millions of men who’ve paid heavily in divorce settlements for years to come just because they married a woman.What entitles a woman to be paid for some years she spent with a man? Consider the women who sign a prenuptial (a must for everyone in this society man and woman alike) then fight it during a divorce. Whatever happened to their word, ever so ready to sign it, then when it comes down to it they demand more. And consider the heartache of the men who’ve suffered severely limited visitation with their children and yet are forced to pay for their care.
So many horror stories across this country of men being victimized, and so little said about it.
Are some men disgusting, yes? Are they indicative of the vast majority, no. The demonization of men is a direct result of the rejection of the natural order between males and females by women who have turned away from being true females to become some perverted semblance of a woman, with the body (often somewhat) of a woman but not the heart. Some even try to negate whatever natural feminine looks they have to become more man-like while others play those attributes up to deceive weak minded men who are so easily beguiled with sex. Such pseudo-females will not possess the feminine mental and emotional, much less spiritual, qualities in relating to a man because they do not intrinsically view a man, in himself, as worthy of respect, and neither are they grateful for the differences between the sexes. No, they behave as if differences are to be eliminated, never acknowledged, thus they become perverse monsters, a mistake for any man who has aspirations of a serious loving relationship to become involved with.
And, men, don’t ignore cheating while dating. If exclusivity is understood (and it should be or else you’re in for some serious consequences one way or another, as whores do not make for good partners if commitment is on your mind) cheating should be a relationship breaker. It’s not something negotiable to be worked out. Cheating actually encompasses many forms, from sex with another of course, to betraying you by denying you the attitudes and behavior you, as a man, feel a female you are involved with should evince toward you. Disloyalty in any form should be a relationship breaker.
Where Are The Real Men?
So, as I consider all these false females in society, I must also address the lack of real men. Many males have become something less than real men now. They’re brought up to be weaklings, to act as if equality between them and women is truth.To accept that a woman is no different than themselves in a relationship, and that to expect a woman to provide traditionally given pleasures is wrong on their part. By pleasure, I refer to everything a real man rightly should expect in a relationship: respect, support for his goals, from the simple pleasure of preparing his meals to making sure he is sexually satisfied. If you put anything else above your man’s wants, you’re less than what a true female should be.
Succinctly, if you choose to be a in relationship with a man, then he should become your priority. None of this feminist equality bullshit.
And a real man will tolerate nothing less. Whoa to the men who were beguiled (seeing what they wanted to see rather than heeding the warning signs of a disturbed woman) who married a feminist (aka bitch). Now you know the hard way what to look out for, they come in many forms, but indeed all that glitters is not gold.
Stay away from women who espouse the feminist verbiage of equality and victimization. The ones who expect you to change for them. The ones who expect you to accept any decisions they make. The ones who think it’s acceptable to engage with male friends alone, and try to make you feel guilty for not accepting it. Stay away from the ones who get insulted by the use of perfectly good sexually stimulating language. They’ll lay a guilt trip on you for being a real man. Do not change for it is your inner truth rebelling against a most unnatural perversity in such women. Instead, end all association, and never again compromise. There are good females out there, ones who love a man for who he is, and know if they choose to be your partner, you become their devoted priority.
If you sense any foreboding about a woman you’re involved with, heed that still small voice. Because if you don’t, the sex you get now will not be worth the hell you’ll pay later. Never ignore the warning signs that a woman isn’t loyal to you in all ways.
One Screwed Up Society
As a woman, choosing to reject all this feminist nonsense may make you feel like the odd one out. However, first, you be true to yourself. You know you have nothing in common with these women parading around in their sob stories, all the while spewing some of the most hateful rhetoric ever. You feel no such anger against men, you take responsibility for your life and decisions. You view those feminists as some sort of alien creatures, and you’re right.
Feminists are crazy, and feminist men are even crazier. To accept such nonsense, such males relinquish who they could have been simply to avoid criticism. True females stay away from such men. Their emotional problems run deep, just like the feminist women they emulate. Whether a man or woman, those who engage in political correctness, become perverse versions of their sex and its otherwise intrinsic beauty.
Good females of all ages abound, and they must stand strong in their love of themselves and their values which bring them to truly appreciate the men in their lives. We are the strong, intelligent and truly beautiful (inside and out) because we know what it is to appreciate a man, we know what it is to love a man because we truly love who we are.
You know its become a screwed up society when normal healthy heterosexual expression is looked down upon and strange unnatural perversity is hailed and celebrated. The extent to which society has degraded is demonstrated when men who like women, and women who like men, who want nothing more than to share some happiness together, become the seeming oddity. To praise your man, to take satisfaction in raising a family, to work hard, to take personal responsibility for everything in your life – these are the marks of a true female. So stand strong in your femininity.
I reject all this feminist nonsense. And I know there are millions just like me. The liberal (spiritually insane) media will ignore you, but the core of this country is you and the fine work you do day-in day-out in your sphere of influence. You are a true individual. You need join no silly feminist herd to prove yourself. You know who you are, a blessing to the man, friends and family in your life. Your voice is evinced in the love you give all each and every day.
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